Stand Up For Stay At Home Moms

Even though being a stay at home mom is becoming a much more widespread thing to do, many women go into the situation without knowing quite what to expect from both themselves and others. There are several things a woman should try to remember when she makes the decision to become a stay at home mom.

Remember to be proud of yourself. The decision you have made was made for all the right reasons. You know that. Your spouse knows that. Your children know that. And that is all that matters. Period. Do not let the judgment, skepticism or off handed comments of others make you feel belittled or second guess yourself. Keep in mind constantly the reasons you made the decision in the first place. Many times, others might assume you have no education or ambitions if you have chosen to be a stay at home mom. They may think that if you do have an education, you are wasting it. While these are, of course, mostly incorrect stereotypes, they can still be extremely hurtful to most mothers who have to deal with these assumptions. Have responses ready for those who make these statements to you or your spouse. You can tell them that you do not consider your education being wasted if you are bringing up and educating your children, those you love most in the world. 

Secondly, remember to stay on your toes. When you choose to remain at home with your children, you have given up many of the stimulating conversations and interaction that you used to be a part of on a daily basis, whether in the work place or otherwise. Keep these things alive in yourself by trying to become creative with the time given you. You will have what seems like vast amounts of hours to deal with daily now, and depending on the ages of your children, you may have the opportunity to do great things with these hours. While most of them will be spent teaching, caring for and playing with your children, there will be some few hours or moments of the day that are yours alone, and now that your life is so busy, you will treasure them more than ever. Make them count!

Next, remember to stay in the loop.  Even though you will not be seeing coworkers on a day to day basis now, you still have networking opportunities available to you, as a stay at home mom. Stay in contact with old friends, and be diligent about making new ones. Most importantly, see that your new ones are mommies, like you! This will give you a never ending list of things in common to discuss, not to mention someone who has been where you are that you can take your troubles or concerns to. Also, it is always helpful for you and your spouse to make couple of mutual friends. It is definitely a relief to be able to leave the children with a sitter on a Saturday night and go out to dinner with another couple. No children, no spilled drinks, no food on the floor, no shrieking for your attention, just adults talking about adult things. 

As a stay at home mom, you have probably made plenty of sacrifices for your children, and you feel as if your every waking moment is at their beck and call. Just make some time for yourself once in a while. There is nothing like it for keeping your sanity intact!

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